5 Tips to Increase Your Chances at The Bars!

1. Be Confident

No lady is looking for a man who doesn’t believe in himself. Make eye contact at first and then approach. They want you to make the effort and show that you’re trying your best to get to know them. It’s like a cat and mouse game. The more effort they notice the more appealing you are to them. Be complimentary, but don’t go over board. Most women can tell when you’re blowing smoke up their ass or being sincere.


2. Dress to Impress

Not many girls are attracted to a man who looks like a bum. Small things such as clean nails and shiny shoes do help out. Girls pay attention to the smallest details. Haven’t you notice when a girlfriend remembers your whole wardrobe. She can tell when you buy a new shirt or underwear. Most girls put an effort into getting ready when they go out. They expect the same for you. Besides when you dress up, it makes you feel better and have more confidence. Try it and see how you feel and act in the bar.


3. Humor is good approach.

Most girls will admit that a sense of humor on a guy is very sexy. Women want someone playful whom they can enjoy being around. A man who can laugh at himself is very attractive. This doesn’t mean you should be a Jim Carey and an act like a fool all night. There is a time to be serious and a time to let you guard down.

4. Art of Conversation

Ask questions about your date. Questions that require some time and thought to respond. Make her feel that you’re really interested in what she has to talk about. Appreciate the mind cause the body is what got you the nerve to talk to her in the first place. Besides questions or topics that make her think gives you time to think of what to say next and where to go from there.

5. Reading Body Language is Important

How many times have you seen a girl at a bar and she is yawning, which is a sign that she is bored. This means either no one is paying her attention and could be a time for you to strike. Try! Either way you wont waste your time wonder what if. Pay attention to how they response to your questions and how interested they are in the conversation that your having. You should be able to recognize what sort of a general mood someone is in by the way that they hold themselves. Learning to read body language will give you an idea where the conversation is going, or when its time to pack it up.

Hopefully you can use these generals tips to get your Paris Hilton, Lindsay Lohan, or Riyo Mori. For those who do not recognize the last name I mentioned. She won Miss Universe 2007 and is definitely a hottie! You only fail 100 percent of the time when you dont try! Besides, you will visit many different bars in your life time and might never see the same girl that shot you down a few weeks ago. What do you have to lost but your fears!

Thank You For Drinking!

It has been about one month and half since my arrival back to NYC. My friends and I have been hitting the bars pretty hard to celebrate. We hit the Hispanic bars in Queens to the Korean bars in K-Town. Besides the nationality difference, there isn’t much difference in prices. In fact the bars in Queens were only a dollar or two cheaper per drink than the ones in the city. Beers such as Coronas and Heinekens were about five to six dollars in both boroughs. Which is quite reasonable for drinks in NYC I guess. If you think about it, you’re paying six to seven dollars for cigarettes. Everything in New York is priced up. What really blew my mind was the cost of mixed drinks at some of these places. I was playing eleven dollars for a Grey Goose and Cranberry at Sutton Place which is on 54st and 2nd ave. I didn’t mind since the drinks were kinda strong and there were many attractive young ladies throughout the night at this bar. The crowd didn’t die out till about fifteen minutes past three am. Long Islands in K-town were expensive. The drinks cost us about fourteen dollars per Long Island. I felt that’s quite expensive for a drink. Although the drinks were strong and had numerous cute female bartenders, that is still a steep price to pay. If you can afford it than what the hell! Drinks are on you. Next Friday (July 20, 2007), I will be attending the Ice Bar for Obi-Wan’s Birthday Bash. Most of my peoples from New Rochelle should be there. The week after that, it will be C-3PO bachelor party in the city. My wallet is already feeling the burn but hey, your only young once. Best make the most out of it.